Thursday 19 November 2009

Silk Scarves For My Birthday

This is my another friend story:

Years ago (back when we had a good relationship), my wife gave me a box for my birthday. When I opened it, there were 4 long scarves inside, and she had a wicked grin. Still my favorite present ever.

Safety notes:
1. keep a pair of scissors by the bed - to be sure you can release whoever is tied up quickly in an emergency.

2. If you are engaging in any play where someone pretends to be resisting (not necesarially part of silk scarf bondage at all btw), have a safeword - a magic phrase that means "really stop", not pretend stop. There have been really tragic misunderstandings with couples who didn't use this.

If you are really nervous about asking, you can try a half-joke. Next time you make some trivial mistake (not a real one), you can say, "well I guess you'll just need to spank me so I don't do it again". Gives him a chance to either laugh, and ignore it, or laugh and suggest that he is going to do that right now.

keyword: scarf, scarves, silk, headscarf, fashion
source story : http://www.womens-health.com forum

Wednesday 18 November 2009

a story of silk scarf fetish

my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time, and have a VERY active and exclusive sex life. when i met him, i was practically a virgin, and he has taught me a great deal. now, don't get me wrong, i love our sex lives, he can get me to orgasm multiple times a night, and we have so much fun in the bedroom together, not to mention we have a great relationship outside the bedroom. But, I'm kind of curious in trying new things, likebondage . it may sound silly, but im afraid of proposing it to him, because im afraid that if he doesn't want to try it, he will get the wrong idea about how i feel about our sex life now. has anyone gone through something like this and could give me some advice??

some advice from forum:

Go ahead, bring it up to him...it will probably really excite him actually...the thought of something different...and just pose it to him in the way you just wrote your post...that you are very satisfied with him...he takes care of your needs sexually...but that you think it would be fun to explore each others "doable" fantasies....and find out if he has any as well....
Just don't forget...that some things are better left in the fantasy world...don't get too carried away!
Good luck to you!