Here's the truth: Men look sexy in knitwear. Whether it's a paper-thin cashmere sweater or a textured wool pullover, there is something about seeing the masculine form swathed in cozy yarn that is irresistible. I even like the male turtleneck, although my husband insists there is nothing worse. It comes as no surprise, then, that I was thrilled to see scarves playing a central role in couture menswear collections for winter 2008.
The new way to wear your scarf (men, listen up -- you'll be ahead of the game!) is to "fling" it around your neck and shoulders haphazardly, rather than knotting or tying the scarf, as has been popular in the past. Knowing men, I would venture a guess that the fling has been popularized more out of function than fashion, but you never know. At any rate, scarves are being shown with everything, from the classic blazer/trousers combo to full three-piece suits. Always dangling loosely around the shoulders, the scarf looks like it will be making a play as the men's accessory for 2009.
Conclusion : Men Is Sexy And Cool Wearing Silk Scarf or Scarves
Posted Jan 29th 2007 at 5:05PM by Elise Carter
Wednesday, 21 January 2009
Tuesday, 20 January 2009
Silk Scarf Bondage Story
She was beautiful. It was almost a shame to cover her deep brown
eyes. I finished folding the last scarf, a plain black silk square
of almost three feet on a side, and placed it over her eyes.
Pressing my lips to hers, I wrapped the ends around the back of her
head, and pulled them tight, then tied them in a square knot.
Pulling back slightly, I looked at her face. Her lips were slightly
parted, as if she was trying to taste what was going to happen next.
I had laid out almost a dozen scarves on the bed. Many were of the
current fashionable type, thick soft silk printed with images of
equestrian scenes. Others, like the one which covered her eyes, were
a solid color.
She sat next to me, as I took one of her long, smooth arms, and held
it in front of my face. I planted several soft, long kisses on the
inside of her wrist and elbow. She let out a small breath every time
I touched her like that, so I continued to do so as I placed her
wrist across another folded scarf. I wrapped the silk binding around
her wrist twice, making sure to explore every crease and tendon in
her soft skin as I did so.
I made one knot, at the outside of her wrist, then passed the ends
of the scarf inside each other and knotted them again. This ensured
that the silken bonds would stay snug on her delicate wrists, but
not tighten from her struggles.
She put her other arm out, offering it to me to place in bondage. I
wrapped a scarf around it too, and secured it in the same way.
I helped her lie back on the bed, and spent several minutes just
running my fingers over my favorite parts of her body - her face,
down the center of her chest, along the insides of her legs..
I knew that she had spent most of the day on her feet, so I took the
opportunity to rub skin cream on each of her feet, massaging the
heel, in between each of her toes, her ankles, and the achilles
tendon. From the gentle cooing noises she made, I could tell that
she was enjoying it.
Two more bright, satiny print scarves went around her ankles. I
placed the knot at each on the outside of her ankle, where I thought
it might not press against her skin.
I gently arranged each of her limbs to be pointing towards the
corners of the bed. Earlier, I had taken four oblong scarves, and
attached one to each of the posts on our bed.
Holding her hand, I passed the end of one of the long scarves under
the one which was bound around her wrist, and knotted it firmly, so
that her arm was gently pulled away from her body. I moved down to
the leg on the same side, and bound it in a similar fashion. Her
other leg was soon bound, then I moved up to the last remaining limb
- her other arm.
I held onto her wrist, and put my head next to hers, and whispered
in her ear.
"I'm going to tie your hand now. Once I tie the knot, you're not
going to be able to get loose. Do you know that?"
"Yes," she whispered, flexing her muscles slightly, "Please.. tie me
now."
I passed the scarf under the silken band on her wrist, and pulled it
snug, awar from her body. Slowly, I tied the final knot which
secured her.
"You're tied up now," I whispered to her, softly rubbing a finger
across her incredibly-hard nipples, "I can do anything I want to
you. You're going to stay right here until I let you loose."
She let out a slight gasp, and I could pick up a slight scent of her
womanhood. I cupped my hand over her pubic mound, not actually going
inside her, but just putting slight pressure on her soft skin. I
used my fingers to slowly part her lips, exposing her glistening
labia and clit. With my other hand, I took one finger, and placed it
directly on her clit, which she hadn't expected. She took a breath,
and pulled once at her bonds.
"How many orgasms do you think I can give you?" I asked her. I knew
the idea of being given repeated orgasms was one of her fantasies,
but she usually became very sensitive - almost ticklish - right
after orgasm, and usually needed a few minutes to recover.
"I d-don't know," she replied. I saw her fingers exploring the silk
restraints, wondering if she could free herself, and realizing that
her exposed clitoris could be teased as much as I felt like.
"I'd like to gag you", I told her.
She thought for a second, and asked if she had a choice.
"Of course you do. If you'd like, I won't gag you. I'll play with
your body, lick your pussy, and make love to you until we both fall
asleep. Or you can let me gag you. I'll place a pair of your own
panties in your mouth, and secure them with another scarf. It might
be a little uncomfortable, and you'll be able to taste your own
pussy juices. Then I'm going to masturbate you until you orgasm, but
I'm not going to stop. I'm going to keep masturbating you until I
don't think you can take any more."
"If you gag me, how am I going to tell you that I've had enough?"
"You're not going to be able to. I intend to drive you until you are
somewhere between laughter, tears, and passing out from pleasure.
But I won't hurt you. That I do promise you."
"Can you gag me with something besides my panties?"
"No, I don't think so. I want you to taste the sweetness of your own
juices while I tease you."
I could tell she was having a hard time making up her mind, so I
decided to further confuse her by gently massaging her clit, which I
expected to help ruin her judgement.
I put my lips against her ear, gently touching her earlobe, and
whispered "if you let me gag you, I'll let you tie me up and do the
same to me"
"Okay," she whispered, "you can gag me." She opened her mouth, and I
slid the folded silk panties into her mouth, over her tongue. I used
a knotted scarf to secure the underwear in her mouth, then a folded
scarf on top of that, muffling the few sounds that might escape the
mouth-filling gag.
I kissed her for several minutes, touching all the places that I
knew made her even hotter, then slowly climbed between her legs,
spreading her lips with my fingers, and touching my tongue to her
clit.
It took only a few minutes for her first orgasm to arrive, and
immediately after, she suddenly remembered how sensitive she is
after orgasm, and began pleading, screaming, threatening, and
whimpering through the gag.
I slid up to her head, while pressing my fingers into her clit, and
said "Sorry, honey. You're going to be here for a few hours".
Now I just have to hope she forgot that bit about her getting to tie
me up
eyes. I finished folding the last scarf, a plain black silk square
of almost three feet on a side, and placed it over her eyes.
Pressing my lips to hers, I wrapped the ends around the back of her
head, and pulled them tight, then tied them in a square knot.
Pulling back slightly, I looked at her face. Her lips were slightly
parted, as if she was trying to taste what was going to happen next.
I had laid out almost a dozen scarves on the bed. Many were of the
current fashionable type, thick soft silk printed with images of
equestrian scenes. Others, like the one which covered her eyes, were
a solid color.
She sat next to me, as I took one of her long, smooth arms, and held
it in front of my face. I planted several soft, long kisses on the
inside of her wrist and elbow. She let out a small breath every time
I touched her like that, so I continued to do so as I placed her
wrist across another folded scarf. I wrapped the silk binding around
her wrist twice, making sure to explore every crease and tendon in
her soft skin as I did so.
I made one knot, at the outside of her wrist, then passed the ends
of the scarf inside each other and knotted them again. This ensured
that the silken bonds would stay snug on her delicate wrists, but
not tighten from her struggles.
She put her other arm out, offering it to me to place in bondage. I
wrapped a scarf around it too, and secured it in the same way.
I helped her lie back on the bed, and spent several minutes just
running my fingers over my favorite parts of her body - her face,
down the center of her chest, along the insides of her legs..
I knew that she had spent most of the day on her feet, so I took the
opportunity to rub skin cream on each of her feet, massaging the
heel, in between each of her toes, her ankles, and the achilles
tendon. From the gentle cooing noises she made, I could tell that
she was enjoying it.
Two more bright, satiny print scarves went around her ankles. I
placed the knot at each on the outside of her ankle, where I thought
it might not press against her skin.
I gently arranged each of her limbs to be pointing towards the
corners of the bed. Earlier, I had taken four oblong scarves, and
attached one to each of the posts on our bed.
Holding her hand, I passed the end of one of the long scarves under
the one which was bound around her wrist, and knotted it firmly, so
that her arm was gently pulled away from her body. I moved down to
the leg on the same side, and bound it in a similar fashion. Her
other leg was soon bound, then I moved up to the last remaining limb
- her other arm.
I held onto her wrist, and put my head next to hers, and whispered
in her ear.
"I'm going to tie your hand now. Once I tie the knot, you're not
going to be able to get loose. Do you know that?"
"Yes," she whispered, flexing her muscles slightly, "Please.. tie me
now."
I passed the scarf under the silken band on her wrist, and pulled it
snug, awar from her body. Slowly, I tied the final knot which
secured her.
"You're tied up now," I whispered to her, softly rubbing a finger
across her incredibly-hard nipples, "I can do anything I want to
you. You're going to stay right here until I let you loose."
She let out a slight gasp, and I could pick up a slight scent of her
womanhood. I cupped my hand over her pubic mound, not actually going
inside her, but just putting slight pressure on her soft skin. I
used my fingers to slowly part her lips, exposing her glistening
labia and clit. With my other hand, I took one finger, and placed it
directly on her clit, which she hadn't expected. She took a breath,
and pulled once at her bonds.
"How many orgasms do you think I can give you?" I asked her. I knew
the idea of being given repeated orgasms was one of her fantasies,
but she usually became very sensitive - almost ticklish - right
after orgasm, and usually needed a few minutes to recover.
"I d-don't know," she replied. I saw her fingers exploring the silk
restraints, wondering if she could free herself, and realizing that
her exposed clitoris could be teased as much as I felt like.
"I'd like to gag you", I told her.
She thought for a second, and asked if she had a choice.
"Of course you do. If you'd like, I won't gag you. I'll play with
your body, lick your pussy, and make love to you until we both fall
asleep. Or you can let me gag you. I'll place a pair of your own
panties in your mouth, and secure them with another scarf. It might
be a little uncomfortable, and you'll be able to taste your own
pussy juices. Then I'm going to masturbate you until you orgasm, but
I'm not going to stop. I'm going to keep masturbating you until I
don't think you can take any more."
"If you gag me, how am I going to tell you that I've had enough?"
"You're not going to be able to. I intend to drive you until you are
somewhere between laughter, tears, and passing out from pleasure.
But I won't hurt you. That I do promise you."
"Can you gag me with something besides my panties?"
"No, I don't think so. I want you to taste the sweetness of your own
juices while I tease you."
I could tell she was having a hard time making up her mind, so I
decided to further confuse her by gently massaging her clit, which I
expected to help ruin her judgement.
I put my lips against her ear, gently touching her earlobe, and
whispered "if you let me gag you, I'll let you tie me up and do the
same to me"
"Okay," she whispered, "you can gag me." She opened her mouth, and I
slid the folded silk panties into her mouth, over her tongue. I used
a knotted scarf to secure the underwear in her mouth, then a folded
scarf on top of that, muffling the few sounds that might escape the
mouth-filling gag.
I kissed her for several minutes, touching all the places that I
knew made her even hotter, then slowly climbed between her legs,
spreading her lips with my fingers, and touching my tongue to her
clit.
It took only a few minutes for her first orgasm to arrive, and
immediately after, she suddenly remembered how sensitive she is
after orgasm, and began pleading, screaming, threatening, and
whimpering through the gag.
I slid up to her head, while pressing my fingers into her clit, and
said "Sorry, honey. You're going to be here for a few hours".
Now I just have to hope she forgot that bit about her getting to tie
me up
Friday, 2 January 2009
I Found People Whos Looking For Partner on Silk Scarf Bondage, How Hard It Is!
Silk scarves bound for scarf lover
Can anyone tell me why it is so hard to find partners for silk
scarf bondage? I have been looking for years and have been
accepted into many couples lives as a third party for bondage
and fun with BDSM themes, and although nobody I've talked
to about it seems to see anything wrong with it, I just can't
seem to find anyone. I don't think It's me because of all
the other fun bondage experiences I've had with others
on repeated occasions. I do realise that you would have
to have a fondness for the feel of silk, But who doesn't?
Silk scarf bondage is something that is just not to popular
anywhere and the more I look for a partner the more I'm seeing
my favorite fetish go down the toilet. In forty yaers of
searching you'd think I could find at least one other person
who likes this as much as I do and would like to play.
keyword: scarf, scarves, silk scarf, designer scarf, neck scarf, heas scarf, scarf bound, fashion
Can anyone tell me why it is so hard to find partners for silk
scarf bondage? I have been looking for years and have been
accepted into many couples lives as a third party for bondage
and fun with BDSM themes, and although nobody I've talked
to about it seems to see anything wrong with it, I just can't
seem to find anyone. I don't think It's me because of all
the other fun bondage experiences I've had with others
on repeated occasions. I do realise that you would have
to have a fondness for the feel of silk, But who doesn't?
Silk scarf bondage is something that is just not to popular
anywhere and the more I look for a partner the more I'm seeing
my favorite fetish go down the toilet. In forty yaers of
searching you'd think I could find at least one other person
who likes this as much as I do and would like to play.
keyword: scarf, scarves, silk scarf, designer scarf, neck scarf, heas scarf, scarf bound, fashion
Friday, 26 December 2008
How do I initiate silk scarf bondage?
Question :
My boyfriend and I want to try light bondage, and for our first time, I want to be the one in charge. How do I begin?
Answer:
The word silk scarf silk scarf bondage often conjures up images of leather, chains, and handcuffs. But you don't need hard-core accoutrements to experiment with power play. What you do need is mutual CTC (consent, trust, and communication), and the desire to expand your sexual boundaries.
When you and your guy are fooling around, roll him onto his back and straddle him, raise his arms over his head, and loosely bind his wrists with a scarf, his tie, or your stocking. Once he's under your control, have your way with him: Rub your nipples up and down his torso; lick your way from his toes up to his groin, skimming — but not quite touching — his package; use your tongue to run a luscious, wet trail from one hot zone to the next.
The idea is to tease him into a frenzy until he begs for mercy. If you really want to push the erotic envelope, blindfold him. Cutting off one sense intensifies the others, so every time you touch him you'll send shockwaves coursing through his bod. Then, next time reverse the roles. Remember: Dominating can be intoxicating, but surrender is sweet.
While dabbling in silk scarf silk scarf bondage is a great way to have mildly kinky fun, there are a couple of safety rules you need to know: Make sure you keep the restraints loose (you don't want to cut off his circulation), don't leave him unattended, and have him choose a nonsexual phrase or signal before the games start that he can use anytime he wants to be untied.
silk scarf or satin scarf gagged! I love it...
My boyfriend and I want to try light bondage, and for our first time, I want to be the one in charge. How do I begin?
Answer:
The word silk scarf silk scarf bondage often conjures up images of leather, chains, and handcuffs. But you don't need hard-core accoutrements to experiment with power play. What you do need is mutual CTC (consent, trust, and communication), and the desire to expand your sexual boundaries.
When you and your guy are fooling around, roll him onto his back and straddle him, raise his arms over his head, and loosely bind his wrists with a scarf, his tie, or your stocking. Once he's under your control, have your way with him: Rub your nipples up and down his torso; lick your way from his toes up to his groin, skimming — but not quite touching — his package; use your tongue to run a luscious, wet trail from one hot zone to the next.
The idea is to tease him into a frenzy until he begs for mercy. If you really want to push the erotic envelope, blindfold him. Cutting off one sense intensifies the others, so every time you touch him you'll send shockwaves coursing through his bod. Then, next time reverse the roles. Remember: Dominating can be intoxicating, but surrender is sweet.
While dabbling in silk scarf silk scarf bondage is a great way to have mildly kinky fun, there are a couple of safety rules you need to know: Make sure you keep the restraints loose (you don't want to cut off his circulation), don't leave him unattended, and have him choose a nonsexual phrase or signal before the games start that he can use anytime he wants to be untied.
silk scarf or satin scarf gagged! I love it...
Tuesday, 2 December 2008
About Scarf and Scarves : How can I get my boyfriend to try scarf bondage without him thinking I'm a freak?
Some Answer From silk Scarf Bondage Expert :
Answer 1 :
That's a tough one.
The easy answer is to say, "Just talk to him openly about it. If your relationship is strong, you should be able to be open without worrying about what he might think."
I put that here, because I know it's what you are supposed to say...I'm not sure it applies here :)
Here are some suggestions:
-Try finding a movie with a scarf bondage scene in it (not porn). When the scene comes on, make a comment like, "Hey, that looks like fun," or something like that.
-Have him tie you up. It's a lot easier to mention it to him once he has done it to you. Just mention that it might be fun the other way around.
-Try to get into a "What are your sexual fantasies" discussion with him. You don't have to admit that dominating is one of yours (unless you want to), but that conversation always seems to end up with with the "What do you think about [insert sex act here]" question. It would be a good time to ask.
No matter what you do to bring it up, he probably won't think you are a freak. Unless he has some religious or moral objection to it, which you should know by now, he'll probably be VERY open to it.
Most of the guys I know would love it if their girlfriends suggested things like this. Who knows, once you figure ut how to bring this up, you might find that he has some "freaky" ideas as well.
Good luck...
Answer 2:
I had started my wife 8 years ago with her just wiggling around too much during warm-up so I said to her that I would tie her wrists to the bedposts with scarves if she could'nt keep still.
Bedposts, tickling her and telling her to "be still!' just made her hotter as she squirmed more wildly so we advanced to better restraints. over the years her ankles became restrained as well and candles came into play. just take it slow and see if he/she wants to submit and be pleased and discover deeper satisfaction with a partner she can trust on the deepest level, if it does'nt feel good- choose a word that means "stop" with no question as to why and then discuss the discomfort, often just some fine-tuning. Have Fun!
Answer 3:
I'd start simple- introduce something like a pair of hancuffs to the bedroom- perhaps buy them as a semi-jokey present for him (most sex shops sell the safety-catch variety- you can even get them in gift shops), and next time you're getting fruity suggest that he uses them on you/ you use them on him (whichever you prefer). Its harmless and fairly innocuous not-too-kinky fun, but suggestive of more full on bondage. If you prefer, you could get hold of some bondage tape and get inventive (more comfortable to use) or improvise with some scarves and stockings. Few guys will throw a strop about it- if he seems to be enjoying it (or at least not minding it), add a blindfold, then you can start to step things up a gear and make slightly more extreme suggestions until you either get exactly what you want or you reach his shock limit. Porn can be a good tool here in a "hey, why don't we try that?" kind of way.
Make sure you still have "normal" sex with him occasionally too, so he knows that you're still satisfied by him no-frill, so to speak
Answer 1 :
That's a tough one.
The easy answer is to say, "Just talk to him openly about it. If your relationship is strong, you should be able to be open without worrying about what he might think."
I put that here, because I know it's what you are supposed to say...I'm not sure it applies here :)
Here are some suggestions:
-Try finding a movie with a scarf bondage scene in it (not porn). When the scene comes on, make a comment like, "Hey, that looks like fun," or something like that.
-Have him tie you up. It's a lot easier to mention it to him once he has done it to you. Just mention that it might be fun the other way around.
-Try to get into a "What are your sexual fantasies" discussion with him. You don't have to admit that dominating is one of yours (unless you want to), but that conversation always seems to end up with with the "What do you think about [insert sex act here]" question. It would be a good time to ask.
No matter what you do to bring it up, he probably won't think you are a freak. Unless he has some religious or moral objection to it, which you should know by now, he'll probably be VERY open to it.
Most of the guys I know would love it if their girlfriends suggested things like this. Who knows, once you figure ut how to bring this up, you might find that he has some "freaky" ideas as well.
Good luck...
Answer 2:
I had started my wife 8 years ago with her just wiggling around too much during warm-up so I said to her that I would tie her wrists to the bedposts with scarves if she could'nt keep still.
Bedposts, tickling her and telling her to "be still!' just made her hotter as she squirmed more wildly so we advanced to better restraints. over the years her ankles became restrained as well and candles came into play. just take it slow and see if he/she wants to submit and be pleased and discover deeper satisfaction with a partner she can trust on the deepest level, if it does'nt feel good- choose a word that means "stop" with no question as to why and then discuss the discomfort, often just some fine-tuning. Have Fun!
Answer 3:
I'd start simple- introduce something like a pair of hancuffs to the bedroom- perhaps buy them as a semi-jokey present for him (most sex shops sell the safety-catch variety- you can even get them in gift shops), and next time you're getting fruity suggest that he uses them on you/ you use them on him (whichever you prefer). Its harmless and fairly innocuous not-too-kinky fun, but suggestive of more full on bondage. If you prefer, you could get hold of some bondage tape and get inventive (more comfortable to use) or improvise with some scarves and stockings. Few guys will throw a strop about it- if he seems to be enjoying it (or at least not minding it), add a blindfold, then you can start to step things up a gear and make slightly more extreme suggestions until you either get exactly what you want or you reach his shock limit. Porn can be a good tool here in a "hey, why don't we try that?" kind of way.
Make sure you still have "normal" sex with him occasionally too, so he knows that you're still satisfied by him no-frill, so to speak
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