Tuesday, 18 October 2011
Multiple Orgasm Techiques
Friday, 2 September 2011
Scarf Fetish Story
I read this story from a mistress blog, here's the story:
One of the weirdest and most unique fetishes is the scarf fetish. I met a guy online who really loves scarves. He has an impressive collection and a lot of famous brands scarves like Hermes and so on. He likes being blindfolded with them, gagged, tied and also tieing, gagging, blindfolding someone with them. He is really fascinated by them. I love the way his big eyes widen when he sees them. I find it a really fascinating fetish, not a common one and I must admit I totally love wearing scarves, our or in, on cam, for fetishists. I am waiting for comments on the weirdest fetishes you’ve ever heard.
source of story: www.blog.mistress-vanda.com/?cat=136
Tuesday, 23 November 2010
Rules for Choosing Stylish Scarves as a Gift
Age of the Receiver
One thing people require to take into consideration is the age of the receiver. Younger people are inclined being lured to brighter shades and wild styles. When you are selecting a scarf for a person under 30 then selecting something with a rainbow of shiny shades in stripes or a geometrical pattern may not only be loved but will truly provide them to use this accessory with many items, specially jeans.
When you happen to be selecting a present for an old person, then select from one of quite a few exquisite scarves that are available in a neutral color. Monochromatic styles in oatmeal, cream, white, black or even red will match more attire in an mature person wardrobe and might be donned for informal, business or even dress.
Scarves appear in many designs and fashions. There are scarves that are long and slim, big squares that might double as shawls and every thing that is in between. Here is where learning an individual perception of design comes in available. Nonetheless, when you do realize their perception of design you might wish to buy a long and slim scarf as it might be worn in a wide variety of many means making it easy for the receiver to benefit from this accessory to develop their individual choice.
One more option will be instead of offering merely one, give two or three square silk scarves in many shapes and styles that will allow the receiver to experiment with many means to don those creations.
Material
Picking the right material is as significant as selecting the right scarf. Most girls will get pleasure from the appearance, feel and comfort of a cashmere or silk scarf. These materials will also meet any kind of outfit contributing added versatility to your present. Nonetheless, when your budget is limited there are quite a few polyester combines and even cottons that are applied in scarves that might give a very exceptional and fashionable appearance to any outfit.
Scarves for Males
When you are selecting from a collection of scarves for males, then your most secure selection is to pick a basic thin cashmere one that might be used with either a sweater or a suit. You might also coordinate a silk one with a matching tie for added formal occasions when the man likes to look dignified when he dresses up.
Picking the right scarf to give as a present is relatively basic as long as you remember that simplicity is usually the key in selecting those accessories. Sticking to the basics of color and pattern and picking materials that feel and look superb is the solution to selecting the right present.
source: www.scarvesscarf.wordpress.com/
Monday, 11 October 2010
Silk Scarves and Dance
The appeal of silk scarves, one of the favorite accessories for women around the world, does not just lie in their ability to brighten up regular attire and lend a sense of elegance and sophistication to an outfit. In the world of dance they also play another couple of vital roles, firstly as part of the costumes which are worn by dancers, and secondly as 'props in a range of traditional dances and other activities.
When we think in terms of the occasions when silk scarves are used in dance, probably the first thing to come to mind is the traditional middle Eastern belly dancing, which is believed to have originated centuries ago as a dance to the goddess of fertility but became more popular during the 1700s and 1800s. The dance, which involves the movement of isolated parts of the body such as the stomach, chest, hips and shoulders, in some cases not only sees the dancer wearing a hip scarf which is often decorated with coins, but also using a silk scarf or veil as a prop which the dancer uses throughout her routine.
Filipino dancing is another type of dance which uses scarves, but this time the role that they play is in expressing emotion. Self-sufficiency, control of emotion, disgust and anger are all expressed by particular movements of two scarves which are held in each of the dancer's hands.
As anyone will know who has watched a gymnastics display, gymnasts typically use a whole range of props such as balls, hoops, ribbons and wands, and women's scarves are another essential item which many incorporate into their routines to add extra interest and better display their skills. School children are often provided with them too, in dance and movement classes to encourage them to use their imagination and express emotions. Even cheerleaders have been known to incorporate them into their displays.
Of course, for some of the more energetic activities, a plainer and more functional type of scarf is probably more appropriate, but for certain types of dancing, and particularly dances which are used for the purposes of expression and which show off the beauty and skill of the dancer, a hand painted silk scarf can add wonderfully to the display. The light, soft 100% pure silk fabric is perfect for producing the desired movements and the stunning unique hand painted designs can increase the overall effect immensely. With such a wide range of themes to the designs, dancers can even choose a theme which correlates in some way with the dance itself.
The strong colors which are used in the creation of flowing handmade silk scarves makes them perfect for all kinds of dancing displays, whether they are being worn or used as a prop. Scarves which use either gentle pastels or strong, bold hues can be chosen according to what the dancer is trying to express, but whichever is the case, a beautiful silk scarf can add color and interest to any dancing display.
Interested in silk scarves, or shawls? Visit WomenClothingToday.com to browse a gorgeous collection of scarves and shawls perfect for accessorizing or for giving as a unique gift. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Julie-Ann_Amos |
Saturday, 9 October 2010
Silk Appeal - Sensual Women's Scarves for You and Your Man
Women - we spend hours on end planning what we are going to wear on that special date. If we are not physically rooting through the closet trying to assemble the perfect outfit, then we are daydreaming about the clothes that we own, imagining how this dress will look with that jacket or this skirt with that top. In our minds, we even try on different items of jewelry, shoes and accessories until we come up with what we hope will be the look to take his breath away, and then we concentrate on the perfume that is going to set his pulse racing.
Sight and smell tend to be the two senses that both men and women concentrate on when they want to make a really big impression on the opposite sex. The sense of touch, however, is one which is rarely taken into account in terms of what we wear and how we present ourselves, and yet it can have a profound effect on the way that we, or our partners, feel.
Even on a first date, and especially on one where two people really hit it off, couples do still touch one another. The woman might touch the man's arm as they chat over dinner, or he might place his hand on her shoulder or waist as he guides her safely across a busy street. They might not be intimate touches, but they leave an impression nevertheless.
In fall and winter especially, the clothes that we choose to wear tend naturally to err on the side of warmth and practicality. Often though, they are manufactured from rough materials such as itchy wool or coarse tweed which could in no way be described as sensual to the touch. Rather than making our fingers want to linger, they make us want to recoil.
Silk, of course, is one of the finest and softest fabrics there is, which is why it has earned such an outstanding reputation as the hallmark of quality. Used to produce luxury garments and accessories, it not only screams class, style and the ultimate in elegance, but also sensuality. It simply begs to be stroked and caressed.
An entire outfit made from silk would, for many people, be neither a practical nor an affordable option, but that does not mean to say that the fabric has to be ruled out altogether. A silk scarf or shawl worn over a dress, top, jacket or coat can still provide that all-important sensual appeal, but without breaking the bank.
When choosing a woman's scarf or shawl, the very best in terms of silk appeal comes from 100% pure silk. Fine, smooth and sumptuously soft, it scores highest on the 'touch scale', but you can also see instantly that it is the ultimate in quality.
Another thing to bear in mind when selecting a women's scarf or shawl is the method of introducing the design and the color into the fabric, because this too affects the feel of the finished product. While printed designs tend to stand proud of the silk and feel slightly rough to the touch, hand painted silk scarves and shawls which have absorbed the special dyes remain as soft and silky as the natural fabric itself.
Interested in silk scarves, or shawls? Visit WomenClothingToday.com to browse a gorgeous collection of scarves and shawls perfect for accessorizing or for giving as a unique gift. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Julie-Ann_Amos |
Sunday, 26 September 2010
The Silk Scarves Make a Brilliant Gift For Your Dear
The most probable assumption is that the scarves which may be made of silk or any other materials were first used by the Chinese warriors around two thousand years ago. A huge number of Chinese warrior figurines with a piece of scarf around their necks which are found in an extremely old tomb have proved this theory.
As for another conceivable opinion, the birthplace of silk scarves is said to be china as well. At about 230 BC, the scarves were used to tell the warriors' ranks by tying them around their waists or necks. The superior officers could wear the exclusive china silk scarves while the warriors at the lower levels wore cotton scarves.
Generally speaking, the silk is regarded as a symbol of the wearers' status in the earlier times as the ancient Egyptians and Romans did. Even now in the modern times, it is one of the fabrics which stand for wealth and success. The pure protein fiber composes of silk which is believed to have a positive effect on maintaining metabolism the skin's membrane thus to moisturize it and make it smoother.
Silk scarves have gained a great deal of popularity for years, and people are exploring far more functions of them. You can wrap a pure silk scarf around your neck in a normal way or tie it to your hair to be a fantastic adornment for your plain hairstyle. A lot of young women even tie them to their handbags to create a gorgeous look.
Source: http://entertainment.ezinemark.com
Tuesday, 21 September 2010
Silk Satin Scarf Scene
Friday, 17 September 2010
How to Be a Dominate Female With a Submissive Male
Instructions
Things You'll Need:
You will need the following articles to use while following my advise.
1: comfortable hand cuffs, lined with fur or soft fleece.
2: A "soft"suede flogger.
3: A regular leather flogger, This will sting when used.
4: A spray bottle of cold water mixed with lemon juice.
5: Any kind of soft flowing material like a ladies scarf or silk scarves.
Step 1: Know your submissive intimately. Discuss the act of bondage, using and showing your submissive the floggers, hand cuffs and scarf/scarves. Let them handle them so they will not be afraid to have their Dominate Female apply them. Remember, this is NOT to be done with an unexpected submissive or any other person that has not agreed to join into a verbal contract with the Dominate Female. This is very important. It is for a "couple" that love and care and trust each other. This is the time for you and your submissive to agree on a "safe word". This Safe Word is used by the submissive during the play sequence, if the submissive feels they cannot continue, if the play is too rough, or if the submissive starts to feel uncomfortable with any thing that is or will be happening to them. This is why you need to discuss your instruments along with the use of them, letting the submissive feel them and touch them so they can become comfortable with them.
Step 2: Let your submissive adjust the handcuffs to fit his wrists. letting him know that this is for HIS pleasure as well as yours. After all of the equipment has been put into place ie: cuffs attached to the ceiling from chains - the floggers are clean and sanitized and placed on a small table next to the "play station" along with the lemon water and the scarf.
Also, turn on music that will fill the background but not too loud, nor too soft. Make sure your submissive is "undressed". Leaving him with a pair of small swimming trunks, or something of that nature to cover his private parts. I do not advise anyone starting to "play" without experience to use a subject who is naked. This demeans the submissive and it makes them feel like they have totally lost all control of the situation. Make sure the play room is empty except for the two of you. Have the submissive light any candles of your choice and place them around the room, making it peaceful and romantic.
Step 3: As a Dominate, at this point, call your submissive to you. Some want their submissives to crawl to them and kneel at their feet/boots. I prefer to have the submissive walk to me and then kneel asking "How may I serve you Mistress?"
This is personal preference, but a couple may make their own decisions as to just HOW submissive the male will be.
Ask him to attach the cuffs to his wrists and stand still, with his legs spread to the point of steadying him. One of the most important thing in this scene, is to touch him softly, trail your nails or fingertips around his waist as you walk behind him. Let your fingertips run across his chest and up over his shoulder to his back. This will let him get used to your touch, with out pain. Lay the Hard flogger over his shoulder, letting the handle stay behind his back. At this point, any touching should be light, loving, and tantalizing. Do NOT start flogging him immediately. Let him wonder when the flogging will start.
Step 4: Always stand very close to your submissive at first, letting him feel the heat from your body. You may even want to touch his back with the palms of your hands or your chest area. Murmur softly in his ear, letting him hear your soft voice also helps him to relax. Lay the soft flogger across his bottom using a soft whipping motion. As you do this, gradually increases the force but not to the point where he is screaming. He might moan or something like that, but no actual pain. Continue to use the soft suede flogger for a short period of time, going from his bottom to his shoulders, crisscrossing the motion, making a figure 8 out of your hand movements. As you increase the pressure with the flogger, you will notice his shoulders will start to turn red. This is good, because it means that if he hasn't started GROANING, or yelling, you are doing it right. He is accepting the flogger and your use of it on him. Slowly, exchange the hard flogger from his shoulder and replace it with the suede flogger. Keeping the rhythm with your arm, start using the hard flogger on his bottom. Remember to keep your touch light. He has not accepted this flogger since you have not used it on him before. As you increase the pressure with the hard flogger, watch his body. Notice if he is "twitching" or moving around. He should be standing still. Softly ask him what he thinks of this new flogger. Depending on his answer, either let up on some of the pressure, or increase the pressure. This can go on for several minutes. It all depends upon you and your submissive. If this is the first time, I would recommend that you stop using the floggers and stand very still behind him for about 30 seconds. That will give him time to start to wonder what you are up to. At that point.. start spraying his body liberally with the lemon water. This will, first, surprise the dickens out of him. Secondly, it makes his hot back cool down but the main reason, is that it feels so good and you both get to enjoy it. After his back is wet - set the bottle down, and (here is were it gets kinky). Softly take an experimental LICK with your tongue. Oh goodness will that ever startle him. IF you like it AND he likes it, continue for alittle while, and then use the soft scarf to dry him off. After he is dry, move to the front of him and let the scarf float across his shoulders and chest. If you are agile and you want to, you may use the soft scarf to wrap around his thighs.
Step 5: Once you have used the scarf, this usually signifies the ending of the session. Unfasten the cuffs.... and kneel down bringing your submissive down with you to a kneeling position. It doesn't matter if you have had a "hard" session or a "soft" session, the submissive needs to know that you were pleased with HIS part of the performance. Take the time to embrace him, talking softly, telling him how good he was and how proud you are of him. Thank him for LETTING you work with him. This would be a good time for other activities, depending upon your relationship with your submissive.
Source: www.ehow.com
Friday, 3 September 2010
Sexy Alexander Mqueen Skull Scarf

Sunday, 28 March 2010
Silk Scarves - A Toy For Women
Silk scarves are the flowing emotions of a woman so each silk scarf and each different tying knot reflects different mood of a woman. You can learn how to tie a scarf either from celebrities or from your own fashion experiment. Among the unlimited ways, you could always find your own unique way to wear your silk scarf.
The silk scarves in the bright color can be an eye-catching embellishment. If you choose a similar color to your clothing, you could casually wrap it around the neck but the overall effect seems a bit boring. However, it can be changed if the scarf is tied into a necktie knot. Silk scarves can be a supporting role of the clothing and neck. Your unique characteristics can be presented with a long scarf draping behind the back. The color of the clothing pattern is a good choice for the scarf color and the shining feel can enhance the overall sense of fashion. If you are brave enough, you can also try the combination of silk scarf, neck flower, and necklace.
The beautiful clothing is only part of your beauty which must be comprehensive. The appropriate makeup and decent dress are the necessary conditions to create a beautiful image. The silk scarves with different presentation can be suitable for any occasions so that the overall image looks perfect.
The silk scarves, no matter oblong or square, can be turned into a blossoming rose or a butterfly by the handy women. This season the silk scarves can have a variety of choices and the shinning plain silk scarves are quite popular. Scarves with different specifications can have different tying methods so the following selected ways are recommended for your reference. A small square scarf is an elegant touch for the jeans and makes you beautiful immediately. The small square scarf in the gradual color can be tied into a butterfly knot with a double color wing. A scarf with blossoming gold rose pattern is fit for the outfit in the white, pink, or coffee color. The long silk scarf can be tied into a rose with two big leaves. The clothing with a large collar is suitable for the small scarf pinned with a buckle.
If you like a mature and elegant look, the strip knot is a good choice. Fold the oblong silk scarf into a long strip with a certain width and wrap around the neck twice. One round is tight and the other is loose. Make a knot from the crossing ends and adjust the knot to make it natural. This is the best simple but elegant tying method. This way can be applied for the informal business meetings.
The head wear from the silk scarves can indicate the enthusiastic. The square scarves are folded into a triangle shape and wrap around the head and part of the forehead. Make a knot at the back of the neck and adjust a little so that the scarf is draping with the hair naturally. You can take this tying method during the travel and holiday.
Besides a backless costume from the silk scarf, it can be transformed into a long skirt, too. Two silk scarves in the similar color and pattern are tied around the waist so you can enjoy the effect of dynamic and static. This way is definitely a unique choice for an evening dinner or a cocktail party.
Silk square scarf, which can be a classic style of silk scarves, make a smart style decision due to the variety of knots you can use to tie the silk scarves.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jeff_T.
Saturday, 27 March 2010
Silk Scarves - Your Fashion Secret
Silk scarves are always a special way to dress up any outfit. With its smooth and supple feel,you will receive many benefits when you own one of these unique silk scarves. There are silk scarves available in different sizes, shapes and they can also be dyed in a lot of colors and prints. A beautiful silk scarf can give you a dashing, elegant unique style as well as change your entire look.
It was decided by King Louis in 1466 to develop a national silk industry in Lyon. Starting in the 16th century Lyon became the capital of the European silk commerce, notably producing many reputable fashions. Lyon is known to be the silk capital of the world and a fashion center. The history of scarves is a long one, reaching as far back in history as Ancient Rome at least. The cravat, or a man's scarf, became in integral part of man's fashion in the 19th century. Tied to a belt or draped around the neck, the ancient Romans developed the scarf into a versatile piece of man's fashion accessory. Of course this style was quickly adopted by women also, and the scarf has since become synonymous with woman's fashion. However, the high cost of silk throughout history has meant that silk scarf was often considered a luxury item in Europe and North America. You don't need to spend hundreds of dollars at Hermes to own a quality silk scarf. Silk scarves have only become easy to find in the last twenty years. Knitting and weaving techniques are developing all the time to cope with the increasing demands of the world's fashion designers.
The silk used to make scarves is an environmentally friendly material. The material that silk scarf is made of will give you a one-of-a-kind delight. There were various purposes for which silk scarf has been used throughout history. An elegant silk scarf tied around the neck is a timeless piece of elegance; however it is a little known fact that the early pilots used silk scarves not as an accessory, but rather as a necessity as it helped them keep the oily smoke from the engine out of their mouth. While the head scarf can be used to make a fashion statement, among educated or religious women it is often worn as a religious symbol. You can tie sleek silk scarves in many different ways, perhaps as a sash, and they have many uses: tying, scarves, hair scarves, beach scarves, coats, turbans, and neck scarves. Trendy setters were fashion-savvy enough to realize that this simple accessory can uplift any outfit. The silk scarves are a great fashion accessory and is suitable with jeans,designer dress or even with a wedding dress. Both fashion and outerwear scarves make great winter accessories and they also make terrific gifts. An eye catching accessory is a simple silk scarf worn around the neck. Many scarves have beautiful designs in coordinating colors.
Some of the most beautiful and elegant scarves are silk scarves. These scarves have been thrilling the fashion world for many years. Jackie Kennedy Onassis, Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly and nowadays Sarah Jessica Parker, Madonna, Sharon Stone, all of them incorporated silk scarf into their attire and made fashion history. Women can now afford silk, which will add art to any outfit. You will be simultaneously kept warm and prove to everyone that you are fashionable by using these lightweight, surprisingly inexpensive scarves. A popular fashion accessory is luxurious silk scarves. If you are looking for warmth, style or a bit of both, then you should look at these woman's silk scarves, which are the perfect fashion accessory. These scarves are designed be a colorful and stylish accessory for nearly any occasion.
If you are interested in adding a new flair in your life and your wardrobe, silk scarves are an excellent option. Silk scarves are versatile and can add a special touch. The next time you are looking for a fashion accessory that shows your originality and style, be sure to look at silk scarves.
The tietosuccess website is easy mouse clicking to find favourite scarves online. You can choose from a large variety of beautiful silk scarves including mens neck scarves, and order online for secure and hassle free shopping.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jeff_T.
Secret History Of Silk
Silk had played central part in many of the trades done between China and the ancient world. Due to high demand, silk had become the staple product for most international trade. Traces of trading associated with silk had been found to run in history dating as far back as 3000 years BC. Though there are indications that silk had existed in China 1000 years earlier. One evidence that testifies to the antiquity of the silk cloth trading is the pieces of silk cloth found in 1070 BC from an Egyptian mummy.
Lady Hsi-Ling-Shih is the Goddess of Silk for she first sponsored the cultivation of the silk worms. She was also credited for having introduced the loom. However, it is doubtful if she is beyond legend or not. Later in that period, mulberry trees were cultivated as food for the silk worms.
For over two thousand years, the knowledge of cultivating the silk worms and the production of the fibers were kept secret in China. This is done to keep the monopoly of silk cloth. In those years, exporting live silk worms is considered as a capital crime to further protect the secret of the precious silk cloth. However in 200 BCE, the art of silk culture was transported to Korea through the Chinese immigrants. And around 1oo year later, the art spread through Asia. Silkworms were eventually smuggled out of Asia to Greece, Middle East, India and North Africa. The trading route between this region was named the Silk Road.
Based on a popular legend, two Justinian monks were said to have successfully smuggled silk worm cocoons in their staffs. This incident revolutionized the sericulture as this marked the spread of sericulture to Greece and to neighboring regions. Southern Europe has adopted the silk culture and at around 6th or 7th century CE, sericulture industry has been practiced throughout Europe. Soon after, the larger regions of France, Portugal and Spain adopted the trade.
Venetian traders flourished much from silk cloth production and trading and even encouraged silk growers to establish sericulture in Italy. The practice became so extensive that in the 13th century, Italy became the silk capital of the European world.
Only in 1619 did the production of silk cloth came in America, brought by James I of England. However, too little recognition was given to the trade and the Shakers of Kentucky alone adopted the industry. But by the 1800s, European immigrants revived the industry and settled in Paterson, New Jersey. The city morphed into the America's silk capital yet the fame of Japanese silk cloth remained to be more substantial.
The World War II interrupted Japanese silk importation. And economy lowered dramatically that the merchants looked for silk substitutes. This led them to the production of synthetic silk fiber- the lyocell. The properties of which are hard to separate from that of the original silk cloth.
Sericulture or sericulture is a very long process and demands constant observation. The quality of silk produced would largely depend on the silkworm diet and the prevention of the silkworm from hatching. Chinese silk growers perfected both.
Changes in times were not able to contain the secrets of silk production to Chinese knowledge alone. They were forced to reveal the art to outside world like what occurred when the royalties first allowed the use of silk by the commoners.
Robert Thatcher is a freelance publisher based in Cupertino, California. He publishes articles and reports in various ezines and provides silk resources on [http://www.about-silk.info]
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Robert_Thatcher
Thursday, 25 March 2010
Tie a Scarf and Get Noticed!
Scarves and shawls have now been extensively used to augment a career woman's power attire. These garments have more than transcended the barriers of age old functional purpose, crossing cultural boundaries and limitations to become one of the most loved and treasured fashion accessory of the modern times.
What makes scarves and shawls very fashionable is that they can complement and enhance an otherwise dull looking attire and instantly transform it something sophisticated and elegant. How to tie a scarf thus become an essential requisite for the modern career woman, especially those who need to project power and sophistication, elegance and beauty.
Although there are countless styles of tying scarves and placing shawls on top of everyday attire, the primary consideration here is the person's knowledge and skill of making the three most basic folds for the scarf. These basic folds require a square shaped scarf and the rolling of the scarf in three different ways to give rise to the three basic scarf folds.
From these basic scarf folds come different knots, ties, and wrap styles that can accentuate any given attire's natural elegance. Buckaroo knot, Ascot knot, Casual knot, European knot, and Hollywood knot are just some of the more common types of scarf tying styles that the modern woman of today should know.
Tying a scarf is the art of using the three basic scarf folds into arrangements that brings out the natural beauty and elegance of any given attire. The beauty of it all is that the final design will only be limited by the person's creativity and sense of the appropriate. It is generally good to learn a few of these knots and ties and their recommended usage.
There are a variety of resources available on the Web, from online fashion stores as well as blog sites that have dedicated their virtual existence to the education of the career woman of today in maximizing the fashion benefits of scarves, shawls and other garments. In some cases, these online resources come with full illustrations to make learning the knots a lot easier.
However the manner of learning how to tie a scarf, what is important is the knowledge and appreciation of the scarf's inherent ability to enhance one's appearance by allowing it to exude with elegance and sophistication.
Ladies fashion scarves are available in innumerable design and styles. By knowing how to tie scarves, you'll be giving a sophisticated touch to your simply designed fashion look. In fact when you tie a shawl, it can change an outfit so that you are totally changed into a new vivacious set of clothing and style.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Meryl_Rougeaux
Thursday, 19 November 2009
Silk Scarves For My Birthday
Years ago (back when we had a good relationship), my wife gave me a box for my birthday. When I opened it, there were 4 long scarves inside, and she had a wicked grin. Still my favorite present ever.
Safety notes:
1. keep a pair of scissors by the bed - to be sure you can release whoever is tied up quickly in an emergency.
2. If you are engaging in any play where someone pretends to be resisting (not necesarially part of silk scarf bondage at all btw), have a safeword - a magic phrase that means "really stop", not pretend stop. There have been really tragic misunderstandings with couples who didn't use this.
If you are really nervous about asking, you can try a half-joke. Next time you make some trivial mistake (not a real one), you can say, "well I guess you'll just need to spank me so I don't do it again". Gives him a chance to either laugh, and ignore it, or laugh and suggest that he is going to do that right now.
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source story : http://www.womens-health.com forum
Wednesday, 18 November 2009
a story of silk scarf fetish
some advice from forum:
Go ahead, bring it up to him...it will probably really excite him actually...the thought of something different...and just pose it to him in the way you just wrote your post...that you are very satisfied with him...he takes care of your needs sexually...but that you think it would be fun to explore each others "doable" fantasies....and find out if he has any as well....
Just don't forget...that some things are better left in the fantasy world...don't get too carried away!
Good luck to you!
Friday, 3 July 2009
Blouse and scarf
Wednesday, 21 January 2009
Men in scarves are sexy
The new way to wear your scarf (men, listen up -- you'll be ahead of the game!) is to "fling" it around your neck and shoulders haphazardly, rather than knotting or tying the scarf, as has been popular in the past. Knowing men, I would venture a guess that the fling has been popularized more out of function than fashion, but you never know. At any rate, scarves are being shown with everything, from the classic blazer/trousers combo to full three-piece suits. Always dangling loosely around the shoulders, the scarf looks like it will be making a play as the men's accessory for 2009.
Conclusion : Men Is Sexy And Cool Wearing Silk Scarf or Scarves
Posted Jan 29th 2007 at 5:05PM by Elise Carter
Tuesday, 20 January 2009
Silk Scarf Bondage Story
eyes. I finished folding the last scarf, a plain black silk square
of almost three feet on a side, and placed it over her eyes.
Pressing my lips to hers, I wrapped the ends around the back of her
head, and pulled them tight, then tied them in a square knot.
Pulling back slightly, I looked at her face. Her lips were slightly
parted, as if she was trying to taste what was going to happen next.
I had laid out almost a dozen scarves on the bed. Many were of the
current fashionable type, thick soft silk printed with images of
equestrian scenes. Others, like the one which covered her eyes, were
a solid color.
She sat next to me, as I took one of her long, smooth arms, and held
it in front of my face. I planted several soft, long kisses on the
inside of her wrist and elbow. She let out a small breath every time
I touched her like that, so I continued to do so as I placed her
wrist across another folded scarf. I wrapped the silk binding around
her wrist twice, making sure to explore every crease and tendon in
her soft skin as I did so.
I made one knot, at the outside of her wrist, then passed the ends
of the scarf inside each other and knotted them again. This ensured
that the silken bonds would stay snug on her delicate wrists, but
not tighten from her struggles.
She put her other arm out, offering it to me to place in bondage. I
wrapped a scarf around it too, and secured it in the same way.
I helped her lie back on the bed, and spent several minutes just
running my fingers over my favorite parts of her body - her face,
down the center of her chest, along the insides of her legs..
I knew that she had spent most of the day on her feet, so I took the
opportunity to rub skin cream on each of her feet, massaging the
heel, in between each of her toes, her ankles, and the achilles
tendon. From the gentle cooing noises she made, I could tell that
she was enjoying it.
Two more bright, satiny print scarves went around her ankles. I
placed the knot at each on the outside of her ankle, where I thought
it might not press against her skin.
I gently arranged each of her limbs to be pointing towards the
corners of the bed. Earlier, I had taken four oblong scarves, and
attached one to each of the posts on our bed.
Holding her hand, I passed the end of one of the long scarves under
the one which was bound around her wrist, and knotted it firmly, so
that her arm was gently pulled away from her body. I moved down to
the leg on the same side, and bound it in a similar fashion. Her
other leg was soon bound, then I moved up to the last remaining limb
- her other arm.
I held onto her wrist, and put my head next to hers, and whispered
in her ear.
"I'm going to tie your hand now. Once I tie the knot, you're not
going to be able to get loose. Do you know that?"
"Yes," she whispered, flexing her muscles slightly, "Please.. tie me
now."
I passed the scarf under the silken band on her wrist, and pulled it
snug, awar from her body. Slowly, I tied the final knot which
secured her.
"You're tied up now," I whispered to her, softly rubbing a finger
across her incredibly-hard nipples, "I can do anything I want to
you. You're going to stay right here until I let you loose."
She let out a slight gasp, and I could pick up a slight scent of her
womanhood. I cupped my hand over her pubic mound, not actually going
inside her, but just putting slight pressure on her soft skin. I
used my fingers to slowly part her lips, exposing her glistening
labia and clit. With my other hand, I took one finger, and placed it
directly on her clit, which she hadn't expected. She took a breath,
and pulled once at her bonds.
"How many orgasms do you think I can give you?" I asked her. I knew
the idea of being given repeated orgasms was one of her fantasies,
but she usually became very sensitive - almost ticklish - right
after orgasm, and usually needed a few minutes to recover.
"I d-don't know," she replied. I saw her fingers exploring the silk
restraints, wondering if she could free herself, and realizing that
her exposed clitoris could be teased as much as I felt like.
"I'd like to gag you", I told her.
She thought for a second, and asked if she had a choice.
"Of course you do. If you'd like, I won't gag you. I'll play with
your body, lick your pussy, and make love to you until we both fall
asleep. Or you can let me gag you. I'll place a pair of your own
panties in your mouth, and secure them with another scarf. It might
be a little uncomfortable, and you'll be able to taste your own
pussy juices. Then I'm going to masturbate you until you orgasm, but
I'm not going to stop. I'm going to keep masturbating you until I
don't think you can take any more."
"If you gag me, how am I going to tell you that I've had enough?"
"You're not going to be able to. I intend to drive you until you are
somewhere between laughter, tears, and passing out from pleasure.
But I won't hurt you. That I do promise you."
"Can you gag me with something besides my panties?"
"No, I don't think so. I want you to taste the sweetness of your own
juices while I tease you."
I could tell she was having a hard time making up her mind, so I
decided to further confuse her by gently massaging her clit, which I
expected to help ruin her judgement.
I put my lips against her ear, gently touching her earlobe, and
whispered "if you let me gag you, I'll let you tie me up and do the
same to me"
"Okay," she whispered, "you can gag me." She opened her mouth, and I
slid the folded silk panties into her mouth, over her tongue. I used
a knotted scarf to secure the underwear in her mouth, then a folded
scarf on top of that, muffling the few sounds that might escape the
mouth-filling gag.
I kissed her for several minutes, touching all the places that I
knew made her even hotter, then slowly climbed between her legs,
spreading her lips with my fingers, and touching my tongue to her
clit.
It took only a few minutes for her first orgasm to arrive, and
immediately after, she suddenly remembered how sensitive she is
after orgasm, and began pleading, screaming, threatening, and
whimpering through the gag.
I slid up to her head, while pressing my fingers into her clit, and
said "Sorry, honey. You're going to be here for a few hours".
Now I just have to hope she forgot that bit about her getting to tie
me up
Friday, 2 January 2009
I Found People Whos Looking For Partner on Silk Scarf Bondage, How Hard It Is!
Can anyone tell me why it is so hard to find partners for silk
scarf bondage? I have been looking for years and have been
accepted into many couples lives as a third party for bondage
and fun with BDSM themes, and although nobody I've talked
to about it seems to see anything wrong with it, I just can't
seem to find anyone. I don't think It's me because of all
the other fun bondage experiences I've had with others
on repeated occasions. I do realise that you would have
to have a fondness for the feel of silk, But who doesn't?
Silk scarf bondage is something that is just not to popular
anywhere and the more I look for a partner the more I'm seeing
my favorite fetish go down the toilet. In forty yaers of
searching you'd think I could find at least one other person
who likes this as much as I do and would like to play.
keyword: scarf, scarves, silk scarf, designer scarf, neck scarf, heas scarf, scarf bound, fashion
Friday, 26 December 2008
How do I initiate silk scarf bondage?
My boyfriend and I want to try light bondage, and for our first time, I want to be the one in charge. How do I begin?
Answer:
The word silk scarf silk scarf bondage often conjures up images of leather, chains, and handcuffs. But you don't need hard-core accoutrements to experiment with power play. What you do need is mutual CTC (consent, trust, and communication), and the desire to expand your sexual boundaries.
When you and your guy are fooling around, roll him onto his back and straddle him, raise his arms over his head, and loosely bind his wrists with a scarf, his tie, or your stocking. Once he's under your control, have your way with him: Rub your nipples up and down his torso; lick your way from his toes up to his groin, skimming — but not quite touching — his package; use your tongue to run a luscious, wet trail from one hot zone to the next.
The idea is to tease him into a frenzy until he begs for mercy. If you really want to push the erotic envelope, blindfold him. Cutting off one sense intensifies the others, so every time you touch him you'll send shockwaves coursing through his bod. Then, next time reverse the roles. Remember: Dominating can be intoxicating, but surrender is sweet.
While dabbling in silk scarf silk scarf bondage is a great way to have mildly kinky fun, there are a couple of safety rules you need to know: Make sure you keep the restraints loose (you don't want to cut off his circulation), don't leave him unattended, and have him choose a nonsexual phrase or signal before the games start that he can use anytime he wants to be untied.
silk scarf or satin scarf gagged! I love it...





